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We often talk about stepping into our true power, about building our confidence and boosting our self-esteem. Though self-confidence and self-esteem seems similar referring to how we feel about ourselves though they are two very different concepts.
Self-esteem is how we generally feel about ourselves; how much we love ourselves and the overall image that we have about who I am positive or negative? It is shaped by our experiences and the environments where we grow up in, through our family members, our school and our community.
Self-confidence can be defined how we feel about our abilities and how capable we see ourselves of doing certain things or handling in unusual situations.
Some of us have been focused on our weaknesses and perceived limitations, rather than our strengths. In some cases, we were educated to find ways to improve so that we could become “the best versions of ourselves.”
Certain times we can only change the things we are aware of, and the things we accept which are true.
I can’t please everybody, no matter how much I try. Whatever people think about me is their own view, and seen from their lenses; and it’s all about them and it has nothing to do with me. I stopped trying to please the peoples in the hope that they would like me. I like myself as I am, and I don’t expect other people to make me happy. My happiness is my liability and everything besides that will be absolute bonus.
Saying no to things means we don’t want to do it and it’s a learned practice of self-care
If it sounds like I should do, I don’t do it. I go for the things which feel like a want. My needs come from myself, instead of being imposed by others. I am choosy about how I am spending my precious time and with whom. Because my time is my life and it’s never come back.
Life should not have to be a fight or an exhausting struggle.
I stopped up competing and comparing myself with others. Instead, I prefer to go on my own journey and feel happy with other’s achievement. I always choose to live in a state of love instead fear and I believe in abundance. We live in a caring life, where there is enough of everything and for everyone.
Being reliable is a matter of preference.
I prefer to stay true to who I am and what I believe to be right. It’s my birthright to be happy and I decided to live my own life with neither apologies nor regrets.
I realized in the life, we don’t get what we desire. We get what we think and deserve. That’s why believing in you, seeing yourselves as enough and worthy of the best things life has to offer.
Most people are lazy.
People say they want to make some kind of a change. They get good, solid advice. Then they do nothing. In most of the cases, failure is not the result of outside influences, but failure is due to a simply lack of efforts. It’s a horrible truth, but it’s the truth, all right: most of the people don’t know what they claim to want enough to put in the work required to get it.
Guiltiness and regret won’t make problems go away.
Not necessary to live in the bad things that happened or that you did in the past. People feel that it’s their obligation to stay on guilt, as if they’ll be a horrible person if they decline feeling guilty. It’s not true. What happened is happened. Move on.
Worrying is useless.
Worry is like bitching. It can’t changes anything, but we feel like we’ve to do it because if we don’t worry about something, it seems like we’re being jokey.
Next time if you’re worried about something, ask yourself how much the problem has reduced to improve your life. It’s really, really hard to explain. That’ll fix things, right?
Successes happen in small steps and in a long time.
This is the keystone message behind my legendary community, which is outcome that people, who actually understands that most of the things take time to get it done.
Almost nothing will happen in huge, gestalt leaps. Want to become a champion or start a successful company? Get a little better every day, and then repeat.
Nobody is rooting you to fail.
The world isn’t out to get you. People have their interest in their own business that they’re not paying attention to you and in your possible failures.
You simply don’t matter to them to root against. That means you’re free always.
Everyone lives according to their own rules, and not yours.
If someone says something to you and you’re insulted. You think they’re being a jerk, because you as per your personal rule which says, “If you say XXXXX to someone, it’s because you want to insult them.” It doesn’t mean that, other person may not necessarily have the same rules as you are.
They are responding according to their own rules, and in all, their system says, they are responding appropriately. Off course they may even think that you are the bad guy.
So who is right? Neither; you simply have different rules. Sooner you realize that everyone is trying to do the best as they can in the life with what they have is the better.
The past and future doesn’t exist. Now [present] is the moment. Past is just a memory. The future is just a projection. Here you can choose to stay back in the past for learning and happy reflection. You can also choose to live in the future for visualization and practical planning. However, any time your awareness floats away to the past or future often for negative purposes, you are suffocating your ability to flourish in the only moment you ever have… that is present [now]. Past and future literally do not exist right now – feel the freedom in this truth i.e. Present
Live in the present and do what makes you happy even if it doesn’t make others happy. Don’t trust something because of someone said it. Question it and discover the truth by your own.
Don’t allow others to decide what you want to do. Listen what they are saying it could help in make your decision. But it is to be yours, which can make you happy. Always true to yourself, respectful, polite and honest. Always set a goal and pursue it. Make the best out of each opportunity, and make sure you know what your strengths and skills are; these will help you in a long away. Take self-care, Eat whole food, exercise, get adequate sleep and enjoy the life.
Without challenges you cannot unlock you’re prospective. Treat Obstacles as opportunities for your growth.
Choose powerful questions and attitudes to receive experience. Turn your lifestyle challenges into a gift. What you do with gift? You receive it, acknowledge it. Look for the value which it can bring into your life. Ask yourself how your life situation will be your best opportunity.
Sometimes we do not forgive others to free them of the situation, burden, guilt or regret. We forgive others to free ourselves only, and love to do so. It is in liberation of ourselves that our energy level, awareness raises and doing so people around us also benefits. The words of forgiveness impacts positively on those we forgive, but eventually forgiveness is a choice that allows us to be happy over again. This goes for both forgiveness to others and forgiveness of self also.
Surrender is the essence of happy life.
Letting go is not giving up, but letting go is surrendering any irrational attachment to particular people, outcomes and situations. Surrender means showing up every day in your life with the intention to be yourself and to do the best you know how, without expecting life to go a certain way.
Encompass goals, dream it, take a purposeful action, but isolate from what life must look like.
The energy of someone aspiring us to create dreams, teamed with surrender, is more powerful and creative than someone resolute to create outcomes with an anxious “must have” mentality.
Surrender brings inner peace and joy, and we forget that our outer lives are a reflection of our inner state of human being
2. Continually comparing yourself to others around with you is another bad habit. Comparing with others, will never give you happy feeling. This could cause depression as well because you will always feel not enough. To split this habit, work slowly and stop comparing yourself to others. Instead, focus on yourself and other good aspects of your personality and abilities.
things that happened in the past, and focusing on negative things that may happen in the future, you will never fully live in the present time. To break this, make sure keeping yourself in the present and enjoy what you have at the current time. Don’t worry about the past or the future; learn to stay in the present moment with positive thinking.
Make me Happy- Seek own Support
Forget what people think and say about you. Focus on how you feel yourself, and keep walking on your own way. Those who accept you are your friends and those who don’t are your teachers.
Forgiveness is the remedy. It allows you to focus on the future without fighting the past. To understand the potential of going forward is to forgive things behind you. Without forgiveness, wounds can never be healed and individual growth can’t achieve. It doesn’t mean you’re erasing the past, or forget what happened. It means you’re letting go of the unpleasantness and hurt, and in its place choose to learn from the incident and move on your life to be happier.
Accept the truth. Stand Firm
So don’t try to hide the truth with dishonesty. It takes courage and strength to admit the truth, but it is the only way to truthfully live. Accept what is, hold in your arms it fully, and live in true happiness for the potential that are positioned ahead.
Keep busy doing constructive things for your self-improvement and for the benefit of others, for whoever in the God’s kingdom must attempt to do good for others every day. If you follow this pattern, you will feel the mood-dispelling joy of knowing you are advancing, mentally, physically, and spiritually.
When you leave this world, objects resources will be left behind; but every good that you have done will go with you. Wealthy people who live in heartlessness, and people who never help others, do not attract wealth in their next life. But those who give and share love, whether it is a lot or little, will attract prosperity.
The negative effects of Manglik Dosh may be reduced with the help of Astrological Remedies which includes Performing the Pooja, Chanting Mantras, Wearing Gemstones , Charities.
What is Manglik Yoga.
This is just opposite of Manglik Dosh, and if Mars placed in the above mentioned houses in a horoscope and giving the results which are certainly benefited to the person, that situation is known as Manglik Yoga.
As per the Vedic horoscope,we are giving here the effects of Mars when it appears in respective houses
Either ascendant (First House),
House of happiness and mental peace (Fourth house),
House of marriage (Seventh House),
House of longevity (Eighth House)
House of expenditure (Twelfth House).
As per Indian Vedic astrology, the Moon signifies emotions, Venus signifies marriage and the Lagna (Ascendant) signifies one’s self.
Mangalik Dosha or Kuja Dosha is the strongest for Venus, Milder for the Moon and the Mildest for the Lagna (Ascendant).
Mars in the 7th and 8th houses causes Strong Mangalik Dosha.
Mars in the 1st, 2nd, 4th and 12th houses indicates Mild Mangalik Dosha.